In my experience "sex is to be endured, not enjoyed, and if you admit to enjoying it you are a slut" is a message enforced far more on women than on men.
Not that I disagree with you on the rest of it, or even on that--I just wanted to point out the double standard is alive and well.
Re: Had much the same reaction
Date: 2011-02-15 02:38 pm (UTC)Not that I disagree with you on the rest of it, or even on that--I just wanted to point out the double standard is alive and well.